We are bombarded by too many little issues that beg for fucks to be given.
We have a limited number of fucks
Life is various levels of suffering flanked by pain and joy as feedback for thefucks we give.
Choose wisely the fucks you give and make them meaningful and purposeful to get the the most joy out of our suffering.
Life is filled with problems no matter your position in life. The key is to find the good problems to have for the joy is in suffering through solving good problems, only then to be presented with more problems.
Identify when you are responsible and make yourself response-able.
Seriously, a great book to put a spin on the perspective of life, and how to enjoy it and more importantly, how to segregate out those things that pull at us that we have little to no control or that would have us bend to their will.
A good life is about identifying values that pose good problems, and trimming out (aka not giving a fuck about) those values that get us nowhere.